What those sisters done is nothing but sickening. It a shame to even have to pay to find that info out but you gotta do what ya gotta do. It would be nice if their was a web site set up for this kind of thing since people dealing with death usually find theirselves strapped with money woes at this time.
Money will make people do some crazy things, I have a sister who got some money from an uncles (who by the way, she did not have anything to do with) and hid it from the rest of us. It was supposed to go three ways, well she took the $8000 from the life insurance and gave me the bank books and said, you can have what is in the bank. I did not jump on it right away, thought you never miss what you don't have, well winter time came and I needed a few bucks, when I looked into it, little miss greedy went and cleaned out the bank accounts and sold the old junk car for $500, I thought she was out for blood money. I was not mad, I felt it was not mine to begin with, should have been donated to his church, but she spent every dime of it. I just got a real good glimpse of her that I did not like, love my sister to death, but money is the root of her evil, it was UNREAL. She nor I had nothing to do with this guys at all, it was a shame.
I think when someone that close to us does something so dishonest it hurts. I've had family members do different things myself especially when my first husband died. they came down and took some things to their house for safe keeping since they thought his family members would lay claim to them. Didn't really pay too much attention since it was tools and ect. I was dealing with the death of my first love and taking care of our 4 yr. old. Well the next summer they had a yard sale and low and behold there was the kerosene heaters, battery charger, tow chain...I'm sure you got the picture. Now I just don't have the trust in them anymore. At first we didn't talk for a couple months but my son started missing them so I just chalked it up to a good life lesson.