Sounds to me like, the administrator great step grandma is that right?

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PostPosted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 1:58 pm   Post subject: Thanks Lori  

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Sounds to me like, the administrator (great step grandma is that right?). Is 'ram-roding' this show. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE....Communicate with the attorney you have hired for your boy, YOUR SON, as father (and only parent NOT responsible for her death) should be the first (and only) beneficiary to her (your grandbabies) estate. Now, others can file claim to it. (ie step great grandma, mom etc) but I doubt a judge will give them anything.




The step-mother and step-great grandmother think they have been ram-roding as you put it this the whole time. After receiving no help from them for 4 years all of a sudden they wanted to take charge, that is the way they treated us when we got to Virginia and that is why we did not stay for their funeral. We were treated like we had never done anything for the baby and they had always been there. We brought our half of her ashes home and had our own funeral I have a small policy with Woodman of The World on all my grand babies and that paid for our funeral. The papers do list my son and the mother as the only heirs to the estate. I am going to contact his attorney today to see were he is with this.



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 2:20 pm   Post subject: Thanks Lori  

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You are going to have a rate increase for this, it will not matter if 25k or 100k is paid out. Please encourage your boy to collect on this agresssively rather than allow 'fringe' relatives to take this over. Nanny it is going to be paid, no matter what, I think your boy could do alot with this money, if he doesn't want it himself, then he could start a foundation to help children hurt or killed by drunken parents.


Lori I have found out that it doesn't matter what they pay out I am going to have an increase and I am very upset that my insurance company didn't tell us anything about this just let us set here and get these papers after the fact. I have advised my son to do what ever his attorney tells him to do. Yes he can use the money, first off I was stuck with the car payment on the car she was driving when she left Georgia I wouldn't let her take it out of State because I was afraid something like this might happen, boy was I a fool. She used her tax refund which he helped her get by letting here claim the child for EARNED INCOME CREDIT leaving him owing tax money to buy the car she was driving and I still got in trouble. If he winds up getting this money he plains on paying me back for all the money I have spent on them over the last 4 or 5 years. Georgia has a program for abused and mis treated children my son and husband have been checking into it, he would most likely donate some to them. Don't get me wrong we are poor people this money would give him a chance to start over and have a new life, he will never get over losing his daughter she was very special.



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PostPosted: Thu Sep 27, 2007 2:50 pm   Post subject: Thanks Lori  

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If you are a woman of faith as I am, then you know there is a reason that the Lord has behind all of this that we simply cannot know right now. Keep your faith, and grab ahold tight....


Lori you just don't know how much you have helped me by responding to all of this. I am a woman of faith that has guided me all my life. When you talk to people about this it is like you are loosing your mind, people don't understand why I would put up with the things I did so we could keep contact and I have done the same with the other sister. My family has been going throw all kinds of things every since my boys meet these girls and it is like living in a nightmare and telling someone about it is like unbelieveable. I do have some relief knowing that someone in the world understand me. It would take me a 25 page letter to tell all the things that have happened over the last 4 or 5 years since my boys meet these girls. My oldest son and the other sister have 3 children and they are the only reason reason I am able to carry on I fell like I have to do it for them. These sisters got pregnant around the same time the one we lost was born April 9, 2002 and the other sisters baby was born July 21, 2002 they were very close and it has been real hard on that child she doesn't understand why her cousin is dead she is now 5 years. Well this forum is not for this so I will stop her I just wanted to say thank you Lori for understanding. My God bless you.



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