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PostPosted: Tue Nov 25, 2008 6:09 pm   Post subject: insurance  

Kind of wanna to 'add' my '2 cents' to this thread. My son knows I have an Insurance policy, through the military. However...he doesn't know how much.....he's never asked, for that matter. he tells me that, "he would rather have ME than the money." He also says, "Money is nice to have, but, MOM.,..when you die, I would NEVER have you again." ( Sniff..Sniff). My son is 15 years old. This conversasion brought teears to my eyes. Crying or Very sad

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PostPosted: Thu Jan 22, 2009 9:19 pm   Post subject: insurance beneficary dispute  

I am a 30 yo male my father died in April of 1986 I was 7 at the time and my sister was 14yo when he died he died in NJ but was buried in GA. His sister was executor of his estate. His aunt and and his niece keep asking me did I get the money from his life insurance. His executor bought a house in GA when I turned 18. My father told my mom if anything ever happened to him my sister and I would be taken care of. My parents were never married and my sister was concieved with his ex-wife. I get e-mail and automated phone calls from the insurance comission in NJ and GA, but when I call the telephone nimber provided. I am always told that AN automated system contacted me and they do not see anything in the system. WHAT DO I NEED TO DO TO RECTIFY THIS SITUATION....I AM DISABLED AND SS IS TELLING ME THAT I GOT MONEY FROM WHEN MY FATHER DIED AND I GOT IT WHEN I TURNED 18YO, BUT I RECIEVED $0. ALSO, SS IS SAYING THAT I NEVER SPENT THE MONEY. WHAT AM I TO DO I HAVE 2 CHILDREN AND NO MEANS TO SUPPORT THEM , 1 CHILD LIVES WITH HIS MOTHER AND I, BUT MY OTHER CHILD LIVES IN DE. PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!


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PostPosted: Fri Jan 30, 2009 2:26 am   Post subject: Beneficary removed  

Can anyone tell me if a spouse can be legally removed as beneficiary without the other spouses knowledge or permission. We have been going through a divorce for 3 years. He is now terminally ill (cancer of the pancreas) however we are still legally married.

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PostPosted: Fri Jan 30, 2009 4:54 am   Post subject:   

Hi Bowden, the members have replied to the other thread that you have started on the same topic. Please, see their responses in the following link,



http://www.ampminsure.org/life/beneficiary-change.html#41928



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PostPosted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 10:06 am   Post subject:   

My daughter is an illegitimate child. Two years before my daughter is born, her father gives me an official receipt paying an insurance premium for a new policy.He died recently..Is it possible that I am a beneficiary of that insurance?


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 11:49 am   Post subject:   

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Is it possible that I am a beneficiary of that insurance?
Sure anything is possible...contact the insurance company and ask them


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PostPosted: Sat Jul 11, 2009 7:30 pm   Post subject:   

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Kind of wanna to 'add' my '2 cents' to this thread. My son knows I have an Insurance policy, through the military. However...he doesn't know how much.....he's never asked, for that matter. he tells me that, "he would rather have ME than the money." He also says, "Money is nice to have, but, MOM.,..when you die, I would NEVER have you again." ( Sniff..Sniff). My son is 15 years old. This conversasion brought teears to my eyes.






I assume that your son doesn't know that he isn't the beneficiary and none of the money will be his.
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PostPosted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 11:09 am   Post subject:   

Ok, Ins. expert...that's enough of that now, did you not see the thread that SD apologized after finding out that everyone here really was trying to help her, and her info was incorrect? And ASKED for help? (it's been about six weeks ago or more)

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i want to apologize for my stubborness. I've been in the Military a long time. 'You' would think if the Military is giving out incorrect information, they would correct themselves. Please tell me,...........what should I do?! How should I change my Life Insurance policy so my son is PROPERLY cared for????????!!!!!!!!!!!




here's a link to that thread, the more I think about it I'm just sure you wouldn't be continueing with the jabs if you'd seen it..please check it out, I'm sure you will be happy to assist her, as you've tried to in the past, now that she is open to that help.



http://www.ampminsure.org/sdchargersfan/sgli-beneficiary-change.html#5 3822


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PostPosted: Sun Jul 12, 2009 6:26 pm   Post subject:   

I never saw it. I greatly apologize for this latest jab. My jabs were always meant to prod her and to get her to take action. I'll take a look at the thread.

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PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 6:43 am   Post subject:   

Hello Everlasting,



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My daughter is an illegitimate child.




I'm sure that she is. However, unfortunately it has nothing to do with her being on her father's life insurance.



Do you still have the receipt that your husband had given you? Contact the insurance company as Lori has said, but most likely the insurance company wouldn't divulge the information regarding the beneficiary if you are not the one.



Hadn't your husband told you anything about you being the beneficiary in the policy?



Can't you find the policy document? It might have had the name of the beneficiary mentioned in it.



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PostPosted: Mon Jul 13, 2009 11:11 am   Post subject:   

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My jabs were always meant to prod her and to get her to take action. I'll take a look at the thread.
I knew your intentions were the best, and your heart was in the right place for your barbs Ins. expert...that's why I thought I'd better bring that thread to your attention, so you could help her..



a, rupert...
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Hadn't your husband told you anything about you being the beneficiary in the policy?
He was never her husband hon, per her statement and your acknowledgement of that statement...
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My daughter is an illegitimate child




Everlasting, how old is your daughter now, and you say it was two years prior to her birth that he gave you the receipt? How long has it been since you've had contact with him prior to his death? Did he ultimately marry someone or have any other children? Did he acknowledge (legally) being father of your child?


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PostPosted: Wed Jul 15, 2009 12:52 pm   Post subject:   

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He died recently..


Was this receipt the only paper that you'd received regarding it? What about the other paper works? Did he keep them with himself?



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PostPosted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 9:39 am   Post subject:   

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He was never her husband hon, per her statement and your acknowledgement of that statement...




Heck!! Shocked



Lori I read it all wrong. I apologise Embarassed



Thanks for pointing it out.
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PostPosted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 11:10 am   Post subject:   

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Heck!! Lori I read it all wrong. I apologise
I figured you did Rupert, I do the same thing, (routinely Wink )


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 07, 2011 12:23 am   Post subject: to fieryone  

It does make a difference financially when part of the childs support system goes away. My sons father died jun 11th and I'm currently starting to fight his mother for my sons right to his life insurance. Its a big difference when you lose the person that helped with diapers, clothes, shoes, medical bills, etc... it hurts that he died but to me my son is more important and his welfare comes first.


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